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Sugar relationships are not always easy to talk about with friends and there is a need for discretion on either side. There are some sugar babies shared their sugar baby experience. If there’s anything you want to talk about! We want to love hear your experiences.

Sugar baby want the best experiences. For sugar babies on sugar daddy websites, they may be making it very difficult for themselves with the type of photos and the quality of photos. You may have a full figured, etc.. You don’t want to mislead anyone about your full body shots and should proudly show it off in a few of your photos.

Sugar baby experience: I get rejected in like 2 seconds of a man seeing you

I 've been out of the sugaring life for a while and decided to get back into it. I dont look like a supermodel but I am decently cute and did get some decent SDs in the past. Anyway i agreed to meet this guy for coffee yesturday and i sent him three REAL photos of me, not like i was trying to catfish him or anything. We got along good in the texts and he seemed to like me. So we agreed to meet at the shop and i pull up to the parking lot and park (i told him which car i was in).

I think my face is my main problem im tall and slim with some curves i never had a guy complain about my body but i guess i just have more of a unique and exotic face that some men either love or hate :/ the pics are me but with alot of makeup on and stuff, but like im too scared to use more clear photos of me cuz i dont want anyone in my life recognizing me u know? but ya i guess ill update the pics.

So i get out for 2 seconds and see him walking towards me. In one second he goes "I dont wanna waste your time, but youre not my type" Something like that...and i was like umm ok and got back in my car and left. WTF? i just feel so let down and ugly, and i was wearing sunglasses too so how could he even really see my face? I dunno i just feel so horrible... It still hurts getting rejected in like 2 seconds of a man seeing you lol. I am pissed but it all happend so fast that i couldnt even react to it in time, if i knew i would of called him a crypt keeper looking asshole lol

Advice from sugar baby

Then you may need to re-assess the photos you use. If there is such a large disconnect that this could happen, it's possible your photos are not a realistic picture of you. Are you using filters? (Don't, ever) Are you shooting to hide your body? (Again, don't ever) Etc.

Here’s my experience if that makes you feel better. Started sugaring at age 32 with my most prime physique. I think I looked the best I ever did in my life offering good allowance. You wouldn’t believe how many times I got rejected with the reason I am not their type.

I was livid just like you cause well human and rejection is difficult. As I was recalling this story to a SB she mentioned that she was on fence cause physically I wasn’t her type but I simulated her mentally. She was always attracted to grey hair, soft body with a belly 🤷🏽‍♂️. I came to realize that there are many girls who are sugaring cause they are really attracted to old men and everybody has a type and I am not their type.

Also as you get old, time is more valuable currency compared to $ so you will see old timer cutting through the bullshit quickly. It might come across as rude but over time you will appreciate it more. Anyways not sure if helpful but that’s my take on it.

Use the rigt photos. advice from sugar daddy

It's understandable to want to be discreet and not have public photos that can easily identify you. I can even understand only sending photos with your real face privately by text. I can not understand not sending clear photos that show your real look at some point. Its unreasonable to expect 100% discretion in the bowl, you have to meet sometime!

If I show up at a meet and greet and you look a lot different than I expected from your photos, I will feel I'm being misled and not feel bad about ending it immediately. It may be more about being misled than thinking you are ugly.Make sure your photos accurately represent you.

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That’s rude on his part but he saved his time and yours. I have forced myself to be nice to ladies who showed up different than their pictures. I decided to be the nice guy and wined them and even dined them. Bad move. Best move is to cut it at the speediest and move on.

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Ive done this as well a few times. I guess Im too nice. This one time I showed up at this nice restaurant to meet at the bar, and woman was at least 10 years older, and 35lbs heavier then her photos, she was waiting at the bar. When I walked in, I almost did a 180 turn around, but knew that would be inconsiderate & mean, so I sat down next to her and had 2 drinks and a couple of appetizers with her.

After I left she texted me and asked when she could see me again, and I told her she was a lovely person, but I didnt think we would work out. She then went on a text rant, telling me that was a mistake, and I didnt realize what I was missing out on. So being nice or gentlemanly doesn't always pay off.

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