Pay per meet

If you are a newbie into sugaring bowl, you may know the most popular ways for daddies to pay sugar babies are a pay per visit or an monthly allowance.

Most sugar babies and suar daddies both believe the arrangement should start with pay per meet, until you've been together long enough that you both know that you want to continue longer term, then you can discuss transitioning to allowance. A minority of SBs and SDs do allowance right from the beginning.

Either way, sugar daddy may discuss with his sugar baby and figure out what works well. It also doesn’t hurt to try both as well! It’s good to play it safe in the beginning and do pay per visit and discuss about if the arrangement goes well and there is enough trust built.

Pros of pay per meet

Easier negotiation.

It’s an easier amount to negotiate and easier to ask for a raise. Usually pay per meet is a lower amount (which is also its main drawback) so it’s easier to negotiate some numbers and it’s understandable to ask for a little more at the end of a month say for bills or rent that’s coming up.

Fun for SDs

Sugar daddies enjoy this payments, it is easy to find many dates and it seems like they really enjoy this method of payment, it saves them money and it’s less of a headache.

More free time

You’ll have more time to yourself, if he’s paying to see you every time, most likely he will not ask to see you every night or every other night. This could be once every week or once every other week.

Instant

You get paid right away. The date ends, he hands you the money and you are on your way.

Little risk

If he decides to disappear, he doesn’t owe you any unpaid dues.

Other benefits

• It’s better when you don’t want to date very often.
• Preferred when you have several sugar babies at the same time.
• You can stop the relationship anytime you want.

Cons of pay per meet

Less moolah

Pay per meet will most likely be a lower amount in the few hundreds, even if you explain your budget per month is in the couple thousands, sugar daddies do not want to fork over that much for seeing you one time.

Inconsistent

Consistent money is not guaranteed. Maybe you’ve budgeted that if you do sugar daddy once a week it’ll be enough money for you, but plans will always fall through, sugar daddies will get busy and may not be able to see you every week, so the money you saw last month may not be the same income you get next month.

Short-term

The arrangements don’t last as long as an allowance arrangement. With a sugar daddy, it gives him more freedom and the thought to leave if he only wanted some short term fun or if being a sugar daddy isn’t his thing anymore.

Bargaining

Sugar daddy may try to pull finances from you, by this trying to negotiate wiht the pay per meet rate. Some sugar daddies may lower the amount because he will say he have to get a hotel room when you meet, that is understandable that it is another expense but that should never be accounted for under your expense.

Conclusion

Overall, the main perk of pay per meet is its simplicity. You’re guaranteed to get sugar each and every time you meet up with your sugar daddy. It’s easy on sugar daddy end as well, since it doesn’t require a large upfront investment or long commitments. And thanks to this lower bar for entry, you’re likely to find more sugar daddies who are willing to spring for this.

Pay per meet makes it a pretty sweet payment option when you’re first getting started sugaring and want some sugar quick and easy. The downside, of course, is that it doesn’t require much money or commitment – which can attract short-term minded, bargain hunting sugar daddies. Which is less the case when it comes to Allowance…

What is a reasonable price to ask for pay per visit?

There is a lot of confusion about what allowance actually is. Many new sugar babies fall into the trap of trying to determine how much allowance they’re “worth” based on things like their looks, their age, their body size, etc. They want to know their own sugar baby pay per meet price.

Seriously – don’t even go there. A sugar baby’s allowance is not about how much you’re “worth.” YOU are priceless. There is no way to set a monetary value on yourself and your qualities so don’t even try.

The sugar baby allowance is a give and take. You’re not figuring out your “worth” – you’re simply setting a price for the time, attention, effort, and contribution that you’re willing to make to a sugar daddy’s life. The most important thing is figure out what you want, then decide how much your time is worth..

Of course, this all varies from sugar daddy to sugar daddy and from sugar baby to sugar baby. Here is the average price for pay per visit from major sugar daddy websites.

In pay per visit case, sugar daddy give the sugar baby money after each of your dates. The prices may vary depending on the place you are located in. In the top cities like New York, Los Angeles or San Francisco there would be higher prices.

• Lowest - $300
• Average - $500
• Top ladies - $500-1800

In the smaller cities prices are slightly lower.

• Lowest - $200
• Average - $300-$500
• Top lady - $800-$1500

What is the typical allowance per meet?

Here is the reuslt of an anonymous poll for for sugar babies and sugar daddies for pay per meet. If the sugar baby or sugar daddy receiving or giving a monthly allowance, they estimate per meet by dividing monthly allowance by the number of meets. If they have multiple sugar daddies or sugar babies , choose their average. If it is a gifts only arrangement, they estimated the average value of gifts per meet.

Conclusion

Despite all the flaws in such a poll, probably the $200-$500 range is quite common. There are also a decent # of $500-$800 and $1,000+. We can imagine these tend to older & more affluent sugar daddies and sugar daddies who need to compensate for not being reasonably fit etc.

In other words, the SR marketplace is fairly rational overall although doubtless there are outliers where the allowance is uncommonly high or low, but that is true in other markets too.

How to find a generous sugar daddy

If you want to find a generous sugar daddy, you need to market yourself. Keep your standards high. Take your time. Find people that treat you well that you like. They’re there, you just have to spend more time looking.

As a smart sugar baby, you should not put your all eggs in one sugar daddy websites. Try to put your profile at multiple sugar daddy websites. You may put your profile at major sugar daddy websites like SugarDaddyMeet.

How long do sugar relationships usually last?

Many new sugar babies want to know how long does the average sugar relationship last? We have interview thousands of sugar babies and sugar daddies, resluts show most sugar arranements last on average 3 to 6 months. Average ones probably last 2 to 4 months. Good ones last 6 or more months. Great ones will last multiple years. Read more factors that determine how long a sugar relationship will last.