Monthly Allowance

If you are a newbie into sugaring bowl, you may know the most popular ways for daddies to pay sugar babies are a Pay per meet (PPM) or Mnthly Allowance.

Most sugar babies and suar daddies both believe the arrangement should start with pay per meet, until you've been together long enough that you both know that you want to continue longer term, then you can discuss transitioning to allowance. A minority of SBs and SDs do allowance right from the beginning.

Either way, sugar daddy may discuss with his sugar baby and figure out what works well. It also doesn’t hurt to try both as well! It’s good to play it safe in the beginning and do pay per visit goes well and discuss about the monthly allowance arrangement if there is enough trust built.

Monthly Allowance

There is another way to agree a sugar baby monthly allowance: you can do it once a month with the bigger sum of money. Again, there is the difference between a monthly allowance for the ladies from the big cities and for the women from elsewhere. Then what is the average sugar baby allowance in big cities and small cities?

Big Cities

• Lowest - $2,000
• Average - $3,000
• Top ladies - $6,000-$10,000

For the smaller cities the pay per meet are different.

• Lowest - $1,000
• Average - $2,000
• Top ladies - $5,000

What influences the sugar babies Monthly Allowance?

First of all, it is the sugar baby herself. Her appearance, her self-esteem, her wishes and her experience. Very often sugar daddy and sugar babies agree on less amount of money just to get into the contest of sugar dating and understand how it works.

Also, the more time a woman spends in sugar dating, the more she earns. Not only because of her experience, but also because she would actively look for the rich sugar daddies and wouldn’t spend time on those who wants to give her less than she desires. An experienced sugar baby has the choice, that’s why she can go for those men who offer her bigger sums.

The advantages of Monthly Allowance

For sugar babies, if they get monthly allowance, they gets a guaranteed lump sum once a month. For sugar daddies, they may get extra dates whether they be an extra intimate date, or 2 or 3 platonic lunch/dinner dates.

Negotiating with a sugar daddy

Most sugar babies and sugar daddies may have a hard time negotiating with a partner. Here are the negotiating skills between a sugar baby and sugar daddy

Are you start with pay per meet? How often we meet? Do you ever transition to monthly? If the PPM allowance is X and we meet weekly, she can expect 4X per month in allowance. For example if it's $500 pay per meet and you want to meet 5x a week that's $2,500.

Negotiating skills with sugar daddies

I would say that, my allowance tends to be about 4x a PPM, with an expectation that we are meeting more like ~6-7x/month in a good month. (basically aiming for 2x a week, but knowing it won't always happen).

Because then on the flip side - when I'm traveling straight for 2 weeks; or she gets sick, goes home to visit family, whatever - and we can only meet a couple times during the month - she still gets the full allowance.

That's never a popular comment here - but from my take, that's how an allowance should work - it has positives for both sides. She is getting a guaranteed amount each month. And I'm getting to see her more often in good months.

I know my market pretty well and usually can smell someone with unrealistic expectations. I've been wrong a couple of times, but not often. For me, I have a monthly Sugar Budget I try to maintain which includes all of my expenses for entertainment, travel, hotels, gifts and allowance.

Most of the the pre-meet discussions are about allowance expectations without an understanding of their expectations for entertainments, travel, gifts. etc. Most of the SB's I've spoke to really have poor budgeting skills and don't understand that if I spend a lot on hotels, travel, gifts and entertainment there is less available for allowance.

It's easier to talk in person and get a better feel for their expectations and our connection. I want to see if they have a genuine attraction to me or if it is all about the $'s.

If they are genuinely attracted to me the experience has always been much better. In my best arrangements, we never discussed the amount until I slipped it in their pocket or purse asking if the amount was okay. They almost always find my offer acceptable to generous.

Transitioning from PPM to Monthly Allowance

Transitioning to a periodic allowance if you have any sense that she needs the allowance as an incentive to meet. Too may horror stories of people transitioning to a periodic allowance and then the sugar babies suddenly has no availability. Here is how I have worked it in the past:

• I only considered an allowance when I knew we both enjoyed time with each other and she didn't need the allowance incentive to make time for me.
• We usually would be transitioning from meeting weekly with a PPM.
• I would offer a weekly allowance equal to 1.25 to 1.5 the PPM.
• We would meet as often as we both wanted to with expectations of meeting more than once per week with the understanding some weeks we would not meet at all and some weeks we would meet 3+ times.
• We usually would end up meeting 2+ times per week because we both wanted to and sometimes they would stay with me or travel with me for multiple days in a row when your schedules allowed.
• I would pay the allowance weekly with a direct deposit or CashApp transfer, it was my safeguard if things went south, I could stop with only a weeks allowance at risk at a time.
• When the arrangements finally came to an end, I provided a months worth of allowance as severence. They ended amicably, it may have been different if they did something outrageous that caused it to end.
• They would receive the stability of a steady allowance and and increase in their allowance.
• I would receive the benefit of additional meets with no additional allowance expectations.
• Since we both liked being together it was a win-win.

I always start with a PPM allowance and an expectation of how often we meet. If the PPM allowance is X and we meet weekly, she can expect 4X per month in allowance.

I only switch to a "periodic allowance" usually paid weekly, when I'm confident we have a genuine connection and would like to both see each other more often. It only makes sense when I'm confident she doesn't need the per meet allowance as an incentive to meet. This doesn't happen as often, but has always been the case in my arrangements that lasted over a year. They would often spend multiple days or weekends with me with no expectation of additional allowance. I usually would pay a weekly allowance of 1.5X paid separately from our meets with the expectation we meet 2+ times per week... usually much more than 2 times! :-D I would provide the same allowance even if we were unable to meet due to schedules or if we spent the whole week together. She wasn't "on the clock".

In some situations, I wanted to see her more often and she wanted more allowance, but I wasn't sure the connection was strong enough that she didn't still need a per meet allowance as an incentive to meet. In those situations, rather than X ppm with 4 meets a month and 4X allowance per month, I've switched to 0.75 ppm, but with 2 meets per week or 8 weeks per month and 6X allowance per month. She gets more allowance, I see her more often and get a discount on the ppm, but it still remains a pay per meet allowance.

Conclusion

Despite all the flaws in such a poll, probably the $200-$500 range is quite common. There are also a decent # of $500-$800 and $1,000+. We can imagine these tend to older & more affluent sugar daddies and sugar daddies who need to compensate for not being reasonably fit etc.

In other words, the SR marketplace is fairly rational overall although doubtless there are outliers where the allowance is uncommonly high or low, but that is true in other markets too.

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