Sugar daddy "forget" to pay allowance, How exactly to bring $$$ up?

Sometimes, sugar baby and sugar daddy agreed upon the Pay per Meet amount and all, if the sugar daddy isn’t giving the sugar baby the $$ as you are parting ways, Should sugar baby remind sugar daddy to pay you? How sugar baby should approach it?

We all know that a good SD wouldn’t need reminders and all that. But sometimes, sugar baby may feel got paralysed and forgot to ask about the money hoping he would remember. Rember each of us has a different way of approaching things.

Gentle and polite way to remind new sugar daddy to send the money

Your sugar daddy hasn't paid your allowance, your are not sure how to approach the subject. How to start the conversation. Here are some lines for you.

If it’s earlier in the date. But you don’t even need to be cutesy.

“I think you forgot something?” with a smile is enough or “do you have something for me?”

"I'm so excited to explore each other. Shall we take care of the allowance so I can concentrate on making you a happy?"

"That was so much fun, I almost forgot to ask....How do you want to handle the allowance?"

You have my Venmo right?

Here is a diplomatic way to phrase it.

"I'm so excited to explore each other. Shall we take care of the allowance so I can concentrate on making you a happy?"

If your sugar daddy “forgot” at the end of your intimate date, you need to message him soon about it. Here are some lines.

“Darling, I had such a wonderful time and it seems we both got caught up in the moment. I left before you could give me my allowance. Would you like to Venmo it over now or should we grab a quick coffee so you can deliver in person?”

How will sugar daddy deal with it?

You have to ask as soon as you realize you didn't get it. I confess that I forgot a few times in the heat of the moment. One SB looked flustered as she asked me in the elevator on the way out. She said, "hey am I going to get the money?" I quickly apologized and handed it over. No harm, no foul.

Another texted the next day. She said, "hey you forgot my gift last night." I quickly venmo'd with an apology. I'm old and have memory lapses. Fortunately my SBs have been very forgiving and look for the positive in our relationships.

It doesn't really matter how you ask as long as you ask directly and as soon as you remember. You can learn a lot about the SD if this happens. Some will produce it on the spot like me, and some will hem and haw, giving you a clue that there may be more trouble coming in the future. Good luck!

In support of all the SDs who pay, I would never miss a payment to my SB. I worked for corporations for many years and I sure as sugar would never go to work if i wasn’t sure there was a paycheck at the end of the week. It would not occur to me to not pay my SB for her time because of my history in the working world. But I guess there are some bad apples. I advise NEXT and find an SD with some ethics.

Conclusion

You can get some ideas from above wording. But you should not be relying on these wording - you are in a relationship with this man and you need to put it in your own words.

There is no wrong way to ask for money when he already agreed to give it to you. If he reacts badly it won’t be because you asked wrong, it will be because he is a salt and/or an asshole.

Too many people associate a bad outcome with doing things wrong. If you get a bad outcome (bitch I ain’t paying you shit) that has very little to do with your approach, vast majority of the time. It’s just who he is.

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